You can have your unique way to live a life under the situation that people around you are settled down well and things go smoothly as they should be. If you can ensure the two points, you can freely do whatever you want without people bothering you and without any trouble hindering you.
How can I reach this goal? First of all, I should be sensitive to people’s need, including their need of concern, their desire and inclination. Once you can tell apart people’s need and cheer them up, you win a success. Secondly, there are always mountainous responsibilities for you to take, such as taking care of the parents and the baby, completing the workloads, and doing the household; most of all, socializing with the colleagues, the family members, and the friends. Truly, it seems hard to spare time to your favorite things. However, no pay no gain. We ought to take our responsibilities first to enjoy what we think we deserve then. Therefore, I think we shall and will be strong to strive for time for our hobbies, like reading novels, go shopping, and so on.
Finally, I believe that with the cognitive that obligations should be fulfilled first for the prizes followed by it, everyone may live an enriched life.