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從周遭的人，我看到了一種人．他僅只是為了賺取金錢而行駛目前的職業而已，身為醫生沒有救人濟世的理想，只是想從體制中賺取利潤，博取頭家的歡心而已．而他對自己的要求也僅止於此．身為老師，為了薪水，表面上討好老闆與家長，做的門面得體合宜，而私底下的面容又有幾個家長可以看的到呢？還有所有可口而不健康的餐廳小吃，為的是博取買者的歡心，而健康層面是不在考量範圍內的．包括速食店所提供的酥炸過後香噴噴的食品、便利商店的微波食品以及加工食品，還有各種商業經營的店家．它們的最終目的在於獲利，而在競爭的激烈之下，時常很難以顧及民眾的健康．

從這點你可以推測出，這世界上還有許多其他類似的人．為了金錢而做到工作上的本分，其中沒有太多的道德與堅持在心中．以專門謀取利潤為宗旨，吸引各種人上門”消費”．而過程中，可能在消費金錢之餘，也不知不覺消費的自己的健康．

這就是商業活動．而我認為這種經濟活動的背後，必須要有強而有力的政府出面為民眾把關，所有食衣住行上的各種有害物質的規範標準．在能夠在如此商業發展的繁盛之餘，扮演好保護人民的角色．

而在政府失能的狀況下，至少你要懂得自保，懂得分辨對自己的好壞．

從對自我的要求這個角度來看，你可以知道，不是每個人都有道德潔癖的，有些人甚至存在非常少量的道德成分，那麼你又何必在這樣的環境裡太過苛責自己呢？　在無法改變現狀的前提之下，你知道，如果要保住自己的飯碗，就是做出可以讓老闆賺取鈔票，或者至少成為維持這個機制的小螺絲釘，那麼你可以確保自己的飯碗，維持自己的生活．而不必過於苛責自己違反一些道德倫理．因為工作也只是工作而已，它不代表你，但它代表你的社會適應力．你只是合群而已．

From you were as a student, you have learned what is worth doing and what should be avoided to do. You have learned what is good to the human society and what kind attitude we should held to make the world better. However, over the eighteen-year period, I eventually graduated from university and headed forward to the future in a positive way with passion and devoted heart, and then found out the very truth that most of us are ordinary people, making a living for happiness of our own or our family members instead of some impractical faith about a wonderful world for the whole human beings.

Now, how silly I am? With all the year wasted, I then have realized that the issue of a better life for the human beings is not what I am capable of improving or getting start.  I should have being faced who I were and what abilities on earth I were equipped with. I am nothing but a woman nothing particular. I never have outstanding performance or impressed talents but is only a silent little woman. I am just not that special and I should understand that.

Over the six years working in the society, I can just simply know that almost everyone makes effort to earning money for a better life. They help each other and work hard not for anyone but for their own good. I know most people do like this way though some people can do more to contribute to the society in a basis of their enriched life quality. Then, look at myself and think over. It is awkward that the fact is that I can even hardly feed myself up, not mentioning about taking care of my parents who are aging. Now that you know the benefits of the whole people is not your business since that you can’t even make a living for yourself, the priorities for you to do are working hard for your own good and striving for a better life quality for your own.

To achieve the goal, you need to get along with people instead of criticize their behavior not doing good to the society. Remember that we are ordinary people and that it is nature that we seek for help of the others when we are fragile. Sincerely, human beings are fragile and need sense of safety and that’s why you shouldn’t blame on them. Meanwhile, you shouldn’t blame on yourself for too fragile since you now can accept that you are as fragile as an ordinary person do!

You can have your unique way to live a life under the situation that people around you are settled down well and things go smoothly as they should be. If you can ensure the two points, you can freely do whatever you want without people bothering you and without any trouble hindering you.

How can I reach this goal? First of all, I should be sensitive to people’s need, including their need of concern, their desire and inclination. Once you can tell apart people’s need and cheer them up, you win a success. Secondly, there are always mountainous responsibilities for you to take, such as taking care of the parents and the baby, completing the workloads, and doing the household; most of all, socializing with the colleagues, the family members, and the friends. Truly, it seems hard to spare time to your favorite things. However, no pay no gain. We ought to take our responsibilities first to enjoy what we think we deserve then. Therefore, I think we shall and will be strong to strive for time for our hobbies, like reading novels, go shopping, and so on.

Finally, I believe that with the cognitive that obligations should be fulfilled first for the prizes followed by it, everyone may live an enriched life.

今天在腦袋裡討論到人在人際的表現上有兩種不同的表現方式。而這兩者背後所反映的價值觀也是幾乎相反的。

有一種人比較喜歡安靜地做自己的事，而從另外一種人的眼中，它們的生活無聊而沒有意義。這種人對於人際的互動並沒有很大的興趣。但是不代表他對於自己的生活沒有一點安排，也不代表他的生活內容無聊而沒有意義。他們的特點有兩點如下:

一、          可以為了一個目標長久的等待、累積能量，例如他們通常可以很耐心的閱讀長篇小說；為了一個想要的人、事或物，度過漫長的探索或者追求去獲得報酬。我們說臥薪嘗膽的精神，或者是運籌帷幄的理性都是這種人的特色吧！

二、        思考模式偏重在邏輯思考或者著重在物理性原理可以推演的事物，例如，一件事件後，這些人會著重在探討發生的原因或者思考後續預防的方法等等，而不偏向於發出感性化的言行。

另外一種人喜歡與人交流互動的感覺，而他們外向的表現容易讓人覺得他們的生活總是有發生不完的事情。他們通常喜歡安排活動，喜歡互相交流想法，喜歡大家一起做些什麼的感覺。在另外一種人的眼中，他們是團體中的閃亮之星、他們是團體中的焦點。這一類型的人的特點如下。

Yesterday was the first workday following the end of the Chinese New Year. In the morning, I got up late and hurried up for the last moment. I had been sleepy through the day, after all my sleep time didn’t over five hours. I knew it would be hard the day when I had arrived home at two o’clock the other day after the long trip to Pintong and the terrible traffic jam on the high way. However, it was worth getting along with my husband and his family more during these holidays. From now on, it is working time and studying time, and I believe that in the future my fear of people will be faced and must be solved. I’ve escaped the fact for over six years without consciousness. God bless me!

I was scheduled to keep on working in the hospital after I give birth, but the plan get disrupted because of the plenty human source supply. Since there are enough regular employees, it seems no objective factors for me to stay soundly. The leader just suggested me to change my mind staying at hospital for the benefits provided by the government and emphasized that she had no way but to maintain the enough workload of the regular employees which might possibly had an impact on my work hours and actual income from the hour-paid work.

The leader said she would try her best to help me to gain what I deserved at the first time I entered the company; however, she indeed has her stance as an employed worker to win the best benefit of the employer to protect herself. In result, I was again so innocent about the reality, and thought that people would do other people’s good as possible as they could. It is truth, while with the priority of his own benefit. If it is my turn, I will do the same. Therefore, now, you know how to protect yourself: Sometimes by cheating the other people? No!

I dislike making others do me a favor unless there is no way to go, but I find that for money, sometimes I have to do things that’s beneficial for me but harmful for the others. I hope that won’t happen frequently since I know there are many methods to do benefits both on myself and on the others. I shouldn’t blame on those who choose to abandon my right to protect their own good if there are only one to choose from the two.

Recently, I am annoyed by the impolite behavior of my younger sister’s husband. It could be nothing but a mistake; however, I think the accident cannot be simply a coincident. Mentioning about the story, once I called on the both for their new born baby girl, and after the visit, my sister insisted to have the cake back as a present to celebrate the baby girl. I happily accepted the cake then and brought it with me to head forward to my husband’s family. Not long when I attended the train, a phone call just rang on which was from my sister. Then, she just told me that the cake her husband had handed over to me was the eaten one which I later found almost over half part was empty with a whole new disposable dishes’ set inside. I was totally confused with a little discomfort. Since my sister apologized on the phone, I just said it was ok, and told her to get rest.

On the train, I didn’t mind that much the reckless deed of my younger sister’s husband and took a bite of the cake which tasted a little sour. After the first feeling of discomfort from the half eaten cake and the feeling from the taste of the fresh less cake, I started to doubt the incentive of him, asking myself if I had ever committed doings that irritated him and I simply didn’t sense it. Later on, I’d discussed this incident with my older brother and my father to figure it out. In result, they suggested me to conclude it as a careless mistake for anybody’s good.

Of course, I agree with their viewpoint; meanwhile now I think over my past interaction with my younger sister’s husband carefully to try to find out the possible improper behaviors of me which may annoy people around me. Since I know that I never an easy-going person, I am willing to modify my deeds to boost my relationship with people. After all, the social skill is getting important in this society and I believe that my English talent could be better if I had kind appearance in front of people.

Mentioning about my plan for the future, the study for English certification is on the way, which can present my English capacity to the possible employer. As long as I have qualification to enter the English-teaching area, I believe that I will pay effort to overcome all the difficulties and try my best to adapt to the vocation. It is basic and necessary, and there is no other way for me to choose. After all, the daily life is building up by money: from the meals to feed up all of us to the bill for the house-maintaining. What’s more, the parents of mine and my husband are aging and the baby is here with me inside my abdomen, so it is time for us to take responsibility. Though sometime I miss the days after my graduation from university, I know I should pay back what I’ve gained from the family and the society.

In an ideal way, I schedule to take part in the exam of intermediate level of the General English Professional Test (GEPT) in the middle of the year. With a good grade on the four capacities of English in the test, there may be high possibility for me to be employed by an English-teaching institute with the salary over 23 thousand dollars as an English assistant. Moreover, I hope as a regular employee, I can have the benefit of annual leaves after one year and a year-end bonus which are also legitimated by the government. In the following year, I wish the salary can add up alongside my years of experience. Finally, I shall not forget that all the advantages require my hard-working and well adaptation of the work. It cost time and may possibly exhaust your energy extremely with stressors from the group of the company and also from my family. God bless me!

On the other hand, to accumulating my fortune, it is also a topic to learn how to arrange investment in shares and bonds. Since I know little about them, I plan to have regular deposit first, and then in the following future, start to invest the shares or bonds after looking up the information and plenty discussion with family. Regular savings is indeed important; however, striving to earn more money is also a necessary.

It was a terrible day for me because I had assisted an incapable doctor to meet the patients. In brief of the mess, the doctor could only do meeting the patient and was hopeless to handle other things, including the computer application, the regular process of specific administration which the doctor should have known or should have reminded of the assistant to do, and the most of all, after all the mess, he just blamed on me not to do things well, totally dismissing his own ignorance and mistakes, which then leaded to a series of correcting action of me as an assistant. It was a nightmare to be the assistant of him. Although, I know I am not familiar of some processes, and for a correct result of the work, I had to confirm the details of the administration processes; it is really vicious of the doctor not to focus on his patients but my slow reaction and every mistake. Moreover, after I finished everything, he emphasized on my clumsiness and seemingly be kindly, notify my busy behavior would highly have bad influence on my baby since I am pregnant. Such a vicious person just makes me extremely uncomfortable!

From looking at this person, there are several points worthy discussing and thinking over. First of all, he has no empath on other people who seem need help, since when I made mistakes he did nothing else but blaming and making a fool of me. Second, the doctor knows fewer things than he should do, since he always focuses on things that have little connection with the interrogation enquiry and his patients are less than the other one. In brief, I doubt his professional skill, and the qualification of him to be a doctor. Finally, for me benefit, I shall stay away with this guy and do my job as possible as I can. What’s more, try my best to be polite and to inquire his will at everything to let him feel he is actually being respected in fact, not at all to satisfy his sense of vanity to be a respectful doctor. It is a really silly thing for me. And I leaned a type of people.